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The sluggard buries his hand in the dish, But will not even bring it back to his mouth.   Proverbs 19:24

Here we have one incredibly lazy man. In fact this man's laziness is so bad it is almost comical to picture it. Here is a man who has buried his hand in the dish of food that is set before him. The picture is not of someone who is picking at the top of the food on his plate. This guy has buried his hand into the dish of food, probably covering his entire hand with it. It is as if his appetite has led him to grab all that he can. So we do see initially a selfish attitude - and one who has a huge appetite for what is set before him. But there is a disconnect with this man - because although he can bury his hand in it - there will be little or no real satisfaction from it.

The sluggard has a great appetite - and great desire for things - but he has no ability to bring those desires to pass. He buries his hand in the dish - but he won't work hard enough to even bring it up to his mouth. Again this picture is comical to us. Here is a man with his hand buried deep in the dish. He has grabbed all the food he can handle. The problem is that he is so lazy he won't lift his hand up to his mouth to eat it. This seems so comical that it is a farce to us. Who is so lazy that he won't even lift his food to his mouth to eat. Honestly - there is really no one who would do this at the supper table - but the farcial picture painted for us speaks beyond the supper table. It speaks to spiritual realities - and to the problem that exists with the sluggard.

The sluggard is lazy - that is his problem. The picture before us is one of a man who has great desire - but no discipline to bring it to pass. He has a voracious appetite - but he won't work to see it move from desire to decision to completion. The burying of his hand in the dish speaks of the lazy man's desires. He speaks of wanting things - and speaks of desiring to accomplish great things. He lacks no vision for what he wants - because for many a lazy man - they want the whole world. They do this because they have all the time in the world to develop such fanciful dreams of what could be. The problem is though they can bury their hand in the dish of desire and dreams - they never work to bring their hand up to their mouth and actually fulfill those desires. Here is the crux of this proverb. The lazy man won't work to fulfill his dreams and his desires. He won't apply himself to the tasks that have to be done to accomplish what he wants. Oh the dreams will be huge - but the actual accomplishment of them will be miniscule. His planning box will be full, but the completion box will be empty. We see this every day - in a myriad of men who just won't work - who won't be disciplined to do what is necessary to succeed in their plans.

Those who have just read this might be thinking, "Well why didn't God just say that the lazy man has plans, but he won't work to see them happen?" Because that would not catch our attention. If someone says that - people will ignore him - especially those who are lazy and undisciplined. The sluggard won't even pay attention to that statement. The genius therefore of the Scriptures is that they paint us a picture that catches our attention. To see a sluggard dreaming the hours away without working is . . . well, it's kind of boring. But to see a hungry man with his hand buried in a dish of food. To see that man leave it there, unwilling to even bring it up to his mouth so he can eat . . . well, that's wierd! That catches our attention - and makes us think. The sheer ridiculousness of it catches our eye - and makes us look longer - look deeper. It is in that moment that we work to unlock a proverb that will speak volumes to us. In that moment we will see deeply and learn like we have never learned before. We might even learn that our laziness and sluggardly behavior looks almost as ridiculous as that guy sitting there with his hand buried in a plate of food.
 
 
Better is a dish of vegetables where love is than a fattened ox served with hatred.  Proverbs 15:17

Some might think that this particular proverb is reason to preach vegetarianism - but the point of this proverb is the spirit in which you partake of your meals.  The dish of vegetables is actually seen as far less sumptuous fare than the fattened ox.  The difference here is what is going on while you are sharing your meal with others.  The vegetables, though not nearly as fancy as the fattened ox, are better because they are seasoned with love.  As a pastor I've had the joy of sharing meals with families.  Some of the most precious meals I've enjoyed in my 22 years as a pastor have been shared with some of the poorest of people.  The meals, though simple, were liberally seasoned with love and precious fellowship.  It was such a blessing to sit at such a table. 

The proverb compares the simple fare of a dish of vegetables with the food of a rich man's feast.  To have a fattened ox was about as special as it could get in Israel.  If you remember, the father of the prodigal son ordered that the fattened calf be served when his son came home.  It was a time of glorious celebration - and only the best was to be served.  But what this proverb tells us is that this fattened ox was seasoned with hatred.  Though a wonderful meal of food was served - it was served by someone who hated their guests.  There are those who practice a strange hospitality indeed.  They have guests - but only to get what they can from them.  They invite their guests to their high-class affairs to put them in their debt - so that at a later date they can collect what they are owed.  The worst of these parties are the ones that are done for people they absolutely despise - but they do it anyway because then everyone there will owe them favors.  This is a meal destined for relational indigestion.  The food may taste good - but it will only sour in their stomach as the problem of having to deal with their host comes to the surface.  There is no love - only hatred and a desire to be owed. 

So our writer warns us that in such situations it is better to go for the vegetables than for the most expensive item on the menu.  This is not for reasons of frugality.  It is a warning against false hospitality and the expectations that come with it.  It is a warning to partake of true fellowship - even if it is over celery and water.  In the end, fellowship with love will always trump hatred and fine dining.  One may fill your stomach - but the other fills your soul. 

 
 
Do not love sleep, or you will become poor; Open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with food.  Proverbs 20:13

There are several ways that the Bible refers to laziness.  Some are very pointed like when God speaks of the sluggard or the lazy man.  This one however speaks of someone who loves their sleep - too much.  As a result of this love of sleeping - they wind up lazy, poor, and possibly hungry.

Do not love sleep.  That is the command that is given here.  It is not a sin to sleep - God even promises in the psalms that He will give sleep to His beloved.  There is a difference between enjoying a good night's sleep and just loving to sleep whenever we can.  One is necessary while the other is a sure sign of laziness.  You cannot love sleep and love God at the same time.

Two different times the concept of oversleeping or loving sleep is used to rebuke the laziness of the sluggard.  Proverbs 6:9 tells the sluggard to get up from his sleep.  Proverbs 6:10 and 24:33 both say that a little sleep, slumber, and excess rest and poverty and problems will come in like a robber and an armed man.  Loving to sleep is a dangerous thing to embrace.  God desires for us to be good, motivated workers.  When we do not embrace work - we will most likely embrace sleeping and laziness. 

The other warning here is that when we become lazy - we will also be in danger of becoming poor - even the point of not having food to eat.  Poverty is often the reward for the lazy - as is hunger.  That is why a welfare system that does not require work of some kind for the benefits received is a blight on the work ethic of any country.  If there are benefits - they must be tied to some kind of work.  When we do not do this we are promising a lifestyle to those who receive it that does not require them to work.  They can love their sleep - and be paid for it.  They can be idle - and still receive money and benefits.  This will build an entire class of society that will begin to expect something for nothing.  That will be devastating to that societies ability to produce things and profit from them.  It will also be a tremendous drain on the character of the society as well.

God's answer to this is the call us to wake up and work.  He calls us to wake up and work hard.  He wants us to labor with our hands - not just to provide for the needs of our families and ourselves - but Scripture also says that our hard work is to be so that we can also have something to share with the ones who are in need.  But the Word also states that in the times when we have abundance - it is to help meet the needs of others - but it also says there will be other times when the abundance of others will be given to provide for our needs.  God's point here is that hard work is not an option - but a necessity for a society.  Without it we will become lazy and undisciplined.  Without hard work we will lack character and will most likely get in trouble with the abundance of free time we have.  Why be poor and hungry - both physically and spiritually?  Wake up - and work hard for your food, for your health, and for your character.

 
 
Do not be with heavy drinkers of wine, Or with gluttonous eaters of meat;  Proverbs 23:20

Yesterday we looked at how a father can aim straight for the heart when warning his son against lifestyles that will cause him to be self-destructive.  Today, we will look at how he warns his son. 

The father makes it clear that those who drink wine heavily - and those who eat gluttonously, aree going to face some difficult times later in life.  There are those who drink heavily.  They consume a lot of beer, wine, or hard liquor.  We are warned not to be among these people.  Heavy drinking will eventually lead to alcoholism - which is a stronghold of sin that is very difficult to break.  Over the years I've been a pastor
, I've worked with several men who suffered from a stronghold of alcoholism.  They were drunks who drank until it became a very self-destructive habit.  It was heart-breaking to see some of them struggle for years with this sin.  Jesus is able to deliver us from anything - any habit - any addictive behavior.  But we would be far better off if we never needed HIs deliverance from such things.  That is why we should be warning our sons and daughters against drinking heavily.  But the father also is warning his child against being a glutton as well.  Here is a sin that is seldom if ever addressed - especially if there is a potluck after church that day.

Gluttony is a sin.  That is clear from reading the Word of God.  Just as a person can become addicted to alcohol - he can also become addicted to food as well.  If you don't mind me being a little open here - this is a sin with which I struggle personally.  I tend to eat too much - and at times I've been accused to being addicted to cookies (chocolate chip in particular) - but I can stop eating them whenever I want.  All joking aside, overcoming gluttony has been a battle for me.  As I've fought it - winning sometimes and losing others - I've seen where food has been an idol in my life.  I will run to it to comfort me - instead of running to God.  The excess in eating - also lends itself to excess in other areas as well.  This is a sin we should warn our children about falling into in life.  If it is not overcome - it will lead to very serious consequences.  The reason that we do not see them - is because they are consequences that come over a much longer period of time.  Yet they are coming to the glutton - just as the consequences of drunkenness and alcoholism are coming to the heavy drinker as well.

We are wise when we see these sins of heavy drinking and gluttony and warn our children against them.  We need to warn them that there are very serious problems that develop because of them.  If they continue in them - they can even become life-threatening.  Tomorrow, we will take a look at the consequences of these choices - and - we will see how the wise father seeks to warn his children of them - while seeking to reach their hearts.
 
 
He who is generous will be blessed, For he gives some of his food to the poor. Proverbs 22:9

Who would have thought that being wise involved the character trait of generosity and how we react to the poor?  Yet that is exactly what we are dealing with today with the proverb of the day. 

The one who is generous will be blessed.  The idea for generosity here is one that comes from the Hebraism.  The actual phrase is that this one has a good eye.  In Hebrew, to have a good eye is to be someone who is kind and generous.  It meant that you looked with kindness on others.  It was the picture of a man who was good, gracious, kind, and generous.  A man with a bad eye would be one who is stingy and selfish.  He would be seen as an evil, ungodly man.

Jesus used these same Hebraisms when He said, "The eye is the lamp of your body; when your eye is clear, your whole body also is full of light; but when it is bad, your body also is full of darkness. Then watch out that the light in you is not darkness."  (Luke 11:34-35, NASB)  In the same way Jesus was stating that if our eye is selfish and stingy - if we are tight-fisted and unwilling to give to others - it will yield a darkness in us.  We will be selfish, ungrateful, and unkind men.  But if our eye is good - it shows that we are gracious and kind as well.

The man here with the good eye - he is generous and blessed.  This is seen by the fact that he gives some of his food to the poor.  This gracious and good man is concerned about those less fortunate than himself.  Thus he takes his own food and gives some of it to the one poorer than himself - to bless them.  This is something that is commended from Old to New Testaments. 

As early as Exodus and Deuteronomy God told Israel not to forget the poor.  In Deuteronomy 15:7 we read the following admonition by God - that sounds like a rewriting of this proverb.  "If there is a poor man with you, one of your brothers, in any of your towns in your land which the LORD your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart, nor close your hand from your poor brother;but you shall freely open your hand to him, and shall generously lend him sufficient for his need in whatever he lacks."  But there are not only commands to remember the poor, but also promises of blessing to those who do.  Proverbs 19:17 reminds us that those who are gracious to the poor lend to the Lord - and God promises to reward those who do so for their good deeds.  We even find in the New Testament at the Jerusalem Council that Paul is urged to remember the poor - which he states is the very thing he wanted to do. 

God wants so show His own gracious hand through how He leads His own people to be generous as well.  That is why we want to be gracious and kind towards the poor.  It is absolutely our duty - but it is also an important way that the world around us can see the character and love of our God as He works through us.
 
 
My son, eat honey, for it is good, Yes, the honey from the comb is sweet to your taste; Know that wisdom is thus for your soul; If you find it, then there will be a future, And your hope will not be cut off. Proverbs 24:13-14

Here we have it on biblical authority - eat honey!  There is an interesting study that comes with seeing the benefits of honey and then comparing those to the benefits of wisdom to our souls.  Let's take a look at them today and gain wisdom by learning a little more about honey and wisdom.

Solomon tells us here that we should eat honey for it is good.  Anyone who has tasted honey knows that it tastes good - but Solomon is saying more than this.  He says that honey from the comb is sweet to your taste.  There are sugars in honey that make it a wonderful source of sweetness.  Note though that Solomon is telling us to eat honey from the comb - natural, not processed.  Then we are told that just like honey is good for us an sweet to our taste - so also wisdom is for our soul.  We are reminded that when we find wisdom, there will be a future.  The word used here is "acharith" which means, "a latter end."  What the word says to us is that when we get wisdom - there is a good end to things.  If we live our lives with wisdom - our lives will have a desired end - one that is blessed and good.  We are also told that when we partake of wisdom - our hope will not be cut off.  Wisdom yields a lasting hope.  Wise living is living for eternal things.  Living for this world may seem great at first - but in the end it is bitter.  We have things now - we have pleasures now - but they are all cut off by death.  Ecclesiastes also reminds us that we may be able to enjoy the things of the world when we are young - but when we are old those same things will not satisfy.  The older we get - the less we enjoy things due to the aging of our bodies.  So to live for the foolishness of this world - is to live for a hope that is cut off more and more every year.  In the end - when the "acharith" comes - it is cut off altogether.  Wisdom will protect us from living for a hope that will be cut off.

But how does honey factor into all this?  There are several ways that honey is helpful and healthy for our bodies.  The first is the way that honey gives us sugars.  Refined sugar is digested in a way that elevates our sugar levels in our blood stream - making it easier to become diabetic.  Honey has actually been pre-digested by the bees - and is digested in a way that gives us the energy we need - without an elevation in our blood sugar levels.  In other words, honey gives us what we need - but does so without also giving us the negative.  Wisdom is the same way.  There are those who desire to be smart and educated - but their education lacks God's wisdom and understanding.  When this happens a person has a tendency to become very smart, but also very arrogant.  They get the blessing of knowledge and education - but do so without getting humility and submission to God.  This makes their education dangerous in that they trust a man-centered wisdom - that due to the sin nature in man - rejects the moral wisdom of God.  In the end, their learning tends to corrupt them for they reject God's revelation and view education, knowledge, and wisdom to be purely a human endeavor.  God's wisdom is different.  Like the honey - it offers the good in a way that is not harmful.  God's wisdom educates us - but with a view to submission to God.  The more we learn, the more we embrace humility.  We see that wisdom comes from God.  The Lord does not bypass true learning and education - it is just submitted to God's moral law and is used to bring glory to Him.  Because the God-centered worldview is radically different from the humanistic worldview - the learned gained in each system will lead to drastically different conclusions about life.

A second benefit of honey is that it is filled with antioxidants that help us to fight disease.  We have learned over the years that antioxidants help us fight free radicals - a type of chemical compound in our bodies that weakens them and makes them more succeptible to disease and even cancer.  Honey helps fight these free radicals and keep them from harming us.  Wisdom is like honey in this regard.  Left to ourselves we will make choices that are harmful to us.  The fall of man into sin has guaranteed that.  According to Romans 1 and Ehpesians 4 - our understanding is darkened due to sin.  We will inevitably choose to make a god of our choosing rather than honor the God who made heaven and earth.  Wisdom from God counters this tendecy in sinful man - pointing us to God as the source of wisdom and understanding - rather than turning to our own ungodly wisdom instead.  Wisdom that we gain from God's Word is like a divine antioxidant that will counter our tendency to turn to ourselves and the world for wisdom.  Whereas the world tells us that we are free to make our own sexual choices - even if that involves sex outside of marriage - God's wisdom tells us that sexual intercourse outside of marriage is wrong and harmful to us.  God's wisdom has been vindicated as study after study shows us that abstinence before marriage and faithfulness in it keeps us from all kinds of disease that runs rampant in the sexually promiscuous population.  Like a divine antioxidant, the Word protects us from the free radicals of our sinful nature and the world system around us. 

Another benefit of honey is that is it a wonderful antibacterial and antibiotic.  I learned from a local honey grower in our town that honey is wonderful to use in fighting infection - especially among burn victims.  In China honey is used to keep burn victims from getting infections.  Their success rate in keeping burn victims from getting infections puts ours to shame in America.  Wisdom is just like honey in this regard.  It is a divine remedy to keep us from being infected with the world's thought - and thus from the world's maladies.  God's wisdom tells us that in relationships we should be selfless and patient.  The world tends to be all about themselves in relationships.  That is why there are so many broken relationships in the world.  Marriages are protected from selfishness infections when God's wisdom prevails.  Families are protected from self-centered outbreaks when we apply a healthy dose of God's wisdom to the inevitable difficulties and problems that we will face in this world. 

These are just a couple of the ways that honey and wisdom are good for us body and soul.  When we choose to have a daily diet that includes these things, we will be blessed.  As we read earlier - this will provide us with a desired end and a hope that will not be cut off.  We will find ourselves energized with God's power - as well as protected from the infections of the world in our minds, hearts, and spirits.  So eat up dear saints!  Eat honey - do so wisely, but partake of it.  Take a healthy daily dose of wisdom from God's Word as well.  You will find that when you do this - there will be blessings that will last far beyond a moment - or even a day.  You will be given blessings that will last a lifetime.