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Why Voting is SO Hard for Christians This Election Cycle

10/8/2016

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     Why is it so difficult for a Christian to decide whom to vote for in this upcoming election?  It seems that the more I talk with fellow believers about the presidential election that looms before us in the first week of November the more I hear of people who just don't know what to do.  Here are a few things I hope will comfort your heart on this matter if you are one of these people.
 
      First of all politics is not exactly the most godly arena in our culture today.  We are watching a race between two people who are on the lowest end of the moral scale in our society.  Mrs. Clinton has obviously broken laws in her email scandal.  She has also been less than forthright about what happened in Benghazi and her role (or lack thereof).  But when we look on the other side we see Donald Trump, a serial adulterer and a man who has gained much of his fortune as a result of the gambling industry.  We also see someone who is a braggart and whose Twitter account and speeches are filled with far too much insulting of the other candidates involved - first in the primary and now in the general election.  When we are faced with this kind of choice between candidates at the bottom of the moral barrel, it is difficult to say you are FOR either of them. 
 
      Second, we are once again choosing the lesser of two evils.  I've actually heard it described this political season as a choice between the evil we know and the possible evil we hope won't materialize in the end.  This is not the kind of choice we are used to as believers.  Jesus told us to, "Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness . . . “ The focus in our lives is on seeking what is right, good, holy, and godly.  There is not an area in our relationship with God in which we are encouraged to choose the lesser evil.  We are consistently taught to strive for the right and the best.  Therefore such choices as the ones we've had to make over the last couple of decades are difficult for us - if not downright odious. 
 
       There is a third reason voting is becoming more difficult for the Christian.  Both parties have been far from cordial or gracious to the Christian conservative candidates who represent the kind of moral views we would like to see advanced in our Republic.  To be honest - the Democrats don't even try in this area.  But the way that conservative Christians and their views are being treated in the Republican primaries makes us wonder if we are even a part of that party any longer.  Watching these things unfold - and being told that this is just the way that politics works - in once again something many Christians don't have a stomach for every four years.  Especially when we are told after a candidate is chosen, who has had to change their views to stand for abortion from public statements they've made in the past, that we now have to come together and support them (even though we are very wary of them - because of how they've treated us just 6-10 months ago). 
 
         The fourth and final reason I'll put in this article has to do with the direction of our nation.  My personal feeling is that the choices we have this fall are between watching our Republic and its Constitution being quickly dismantled by one candidate - or - seeing the same thing happen with the other - just more slowly.  Neither candidate even wants to address sexual morality - or gender issues for that matter.  This leaves me with the horrific choice between a fast or a slow decline and destruction in our nation.  One can grasp with this (as well as the other three reasons before it) why we struggle to know whom to vote for this fall.
 
        BUT - and please hear me in this - we live in a rare time in history where we can influence who will lead our nation.  It may not be ideal.  It may not involve having the perfect candidate - or maybe honestly - not even a decent one.  The fact remains we need to look at biblical issues (as Christians) and decide where we can vote to advance godliness and the ability to function as Christians with as little interference as possible (see 1 Timothy 2:2-4).  Our goal is to be able to, “ . . .  lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth."  This passage refers to us praying for our leaders - but I honestly believe it can also b taken to mean, in our culture, to pray as to WHO are leaders should be as well. I know that it is not an easy or joyful task, saints.  But I believe it is one we should not abandon.
 
          One last thing I need to say in an article like this.  The choice of our national leaders often reflects the nation itself.  One of the reasons why we are faced with such choices is that the church has not been the evangelical force it should be in leading people to Christ - and then seeing those believers become effective disciples.  The ungodliness of our leadership choices only reflects the ungodliness of our nation - and it is with a broken and sad heart I have to say - our churches as well.  Let's vote saints.  Let's take the time to examine that vote in light of the Lordship of Jesus Christ.  But - let's pray!  If we just vote - and don't get very serious about prayer - we've made a horrific mistake.  The need of our nation is revival in God's church and spiritual awakening among the lost of our nation.  Without that our nation will continue to slide toward the abyss of ungodliness that we are moving toward currently.  As badly as our nation needs good leaders - it is even more imperative that our nation has good churches filled with godly men and women who are laboring in the gospel to see many in it saved.  May God bless us with godly leaders - but in light of our current spiritual malaise - it may be even more important that God bless our nation and His church with godly, broken, praying people.  

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How to Speak Offensive Truth Less Offensively

7/1/2015

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            Anyone read facebook lately?  Anyone stop reading facebook discussions because of how offensive and incendiary they quickly become?  In the aftermath of the United States Supreme Court ruling on gay marriage there have been an avalanche of articles and posts on social media both for and against gay marriage.  This was inevitable because people on both sides of this issue are very passionate about what they believe.  What does not have to be inevitable is some of the vitriol that begins being exhibited by Christians as things begin to get heated.  Whether or not the “they started it first” argument is used or not, as those redeemed by God through Jesus Christ – and – as those who are called to manifest the fruit of the Spirit – we need to learn a very valuable spiritual lesson.  We need to learn how to share offensive truth less offensively.  Hopefully this article will be helpful in doing so.

               First of all – a true confession is in order.  I am a recovering offensoholic.  In my past I have kind of enjoyed being sarcastic.  The ability to slip in truth wrapped in little barbs of sarcasm and veiled insult is a “skill” I am wanting to unlearn as quickly as possible.  God is revealing to me that more often than not these verbal darts are not very effective when sharing truths that in themselves are going to be offensive to the person hearing them.  The proverb, “you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar,” has sparked repentance for the way I’ve said things more than once.  There are times when I finish writing a piece that I have to go through a Holy Spirit edit several times – before I have any peace in posting or sending it.  The problem is that in our current situation – barbs and sarcasm will quickly turn what could be a logical, profitable conversation into an all out verbal war.  After being nailed by the verbal shrapnel of several of these conversations, I want speak so that if there is a descent into ugliness, it is because of truth shared in love.  There is no gain when truth is shared in an effort to win – or to score points with Christians who quickly gather to “my” side.  The biblical fact is that God wins in all matters of truth.  If I speak His truth with love and a genuine desire to engage in an exchange of ideas, I believe God will use it to do deeper work in people’s lives. 

               One of the things we must understand is that our culture no longer has any clear authority by which it speaks.  Just like in the book of Judges we live in a society where every person is their own authority.  Judges 21:24 says, “. . . and everyone did what was right in his own eyes.”  That is where we are currently.  Therefore we need to grasp that everyone we speak with is an authority unto themselves.  Thus when we share the Scriptures, they will not accept them as an authority.  Now please understand that God’s Word was, is, and always will be truth.  Whether people agree with that or not does not matter – God’s Word is still true.  When you try to share this, people will be offended – and often will say things that will be offensive to you.  We will be accused of being someone who does not think, someone who holds to antiquated ideas, someone who is brainwashed, or as I was recently called . . . an idiot.  Are these things offensive?  Yes they are.  BUT – this is where we can become even more effective in what we share.  Let me explain.



            When we are insulted, we have a choice to make.  First, we should review what we’ve said to make sure that while sharing the truth, we did not descend into any kind of name-calling or inflammatory statements.  Remember, our message itself is offensive to the lost.  Paul spoke of the offense of the cross – and Jesus Himself told us that we would be treated like He was treated.  People who are already offended with our moral point of view, and who do not know Christ, will more often than not say offensive things.  Get used to it – and be ready for the temptation to say similar things back to them.  Also know that if you do – the opportunity will no longer be there to influence someone.  It will most likely deteriorate into stronger and stronger comments, insults, and end in a verbal barrage and a scorched-earth mental landscape.  Once we determine if we said something unnecessarily offensive, we can proceed in the conversation.  (By the way, if you said something you should not have said – apologize.  You’d be shocked how many times this begins to disarm the conflict allowing it to move back into a conversation.) 

           The second thing I am going to suggest may seem very hard, but it will allow you to be able to converse with the person so much better.  In order to share it though I need to ask a question.  Do you want to know what they think?  Please re-read that question because I did not ask if you want to convert to their way of thinking – but – do you want to know what they think.  What I’ve found over several conversations is that when I genuinely try to hear what they are saying and thinking, it helps me to share truth with them more effectively.  Too many of the conversations I’ve read recently have made a quick trip to the most commonly used arguments against each other.  I can almost predict what will be said in the first two or three rounds of statements.  What I cannot predict is the reasoning behind them – or the hurts that a person has because of previous barbs thrown their way.  If you don’t want to genuinely hear what they have to say – you won’t have any genuine ministry to offer them.  But if you go deeper – even being willing to listen or read things you won’t agree with – you will be able to discern what needs to be discussed.  You may even find room to offer an apology for how they’ve been dissed and dismissed.  If they know you care enough to listen – they may start listening to you. 



            Once you begin the conversation in earnest – listen for statements that reveal serious conflicts with the message of the gospel.  I usually read and listen looking for their source of authority (usually themselves in the end), their view of Who God is (this usually is a hodge-podge of ideas from self, internet sites, and on some occasions actual study of the Bible), and what they see as the problem with things as they are currently.  This last concept is basically what they see as sin (which is a word they will almost never use as you do) and what offers redemption or salvation from the problem (again two words they will tend to avoid).  From this point I begin to engage the person with questions involving these things:  1) What or who is their authority?  (Who or what has the final say in their life)  2) What determines if something or someone is good or bad?  3) What is the problem or problems in life?  And then finally, 4) What is the answer or answers to these problems.  As I ask questions about these things, I respond to their answers with the gospel – sharing lovingly, graciously, and usually with reference to my sin and how God saved me from the penalty for it.  I make a beeline to the gospel – and seek to eventually draw things in that direction.  That does not mean that I try to share the “plan of salvation” at every turn.  Instead it means that I deal with issues concerning salvation such as: Who is God?  What is sin?  Who or what has the right to call something sinful?  How can a sinful person know a holy God?  How can a righteous and holy God love us without being a hypocrite about His righteousness and holiness?  What did God do to pay the price He demands as the penalty for sin?  These are the things I head to in the end – because they are the things that matter.  But in the meantime I also try to understand where they’ve come from – and if there are serious hurts and problems in their past.  When these things come up – I want to genuinely care for them, apologize when Christians have been unloving and unkind, and offer real love to them in praying for and empathizing with their offenses. 


            The goal in all this is to truly love them and share and show them Jesus.  This is not hard . . . actually, apart from God’s grace it is impossible!  I cannot tell you how many times I have to stop and pray – back up – and deal with wanting to offend back because I’m offended.  I thank God that He did not deal with me in this way – because I would have been consumed in wrath very early in His gracious dealings with me.  We cannot back up from sharing that sin is sin.  We cannot back away from being honest about what the Bible proclaims.  This is not love – it is dangerously stepping away from God’s righteousness and truth simply because it may offend.  We share the truth – but we do so without the verbal barbs – without referring to the most offensive examples of homosexual activism (or any activism for sinful activity).  We speak the truth without name-calling (even if we’ve been called and are continuing to be called names).  We choose to ask penetrating questions not just so we can probe their thinking – but hopefully so that they will probe their own thinking as we lovingly share what the Bible has to say. 


            I go back to John chapter 4 and how Jesus addressed the Samaritan woman at the well.  Let’s be honest saints – that situation was made for some serious name-calling.  She was a Samartian – she was guilty of adultery – she was an outcast from her own society – she held errant spiritual views – and she was currently in a sexually immoral relationship.  Wow, what a list of potential names that provides.  Yet Jesus did not use a single one of them.  He asked questions – made biblical statements boldly yet lovingly – and eventually through hearing and understanding her – was able to address her deepest spiritual needs.  Her need, by the way, was not to be proven wrong in an argument.  She needed living water.  The result of that conversation was that her sin was boldly and lovingly addressed, she was drawn to admit her sin and turn to God, and finally – she became a witness to others of God’s grace as she was saved.  Now that is where I want to see a conversation go in the end!  Just one more comment though – as you learn to do this not everyone will be converted instantly – or possibly even at all.  But the sound of loving, biblical, redemptive conversations will ring further than you think.  Imagine what one would look like on facebook?  We’ve all seen the ones that turn nasty – with both sides eventually walking away with verbal bloody noses.  Imagine one where the believer does not descend into name-calling of any kind – but – where they endeavor to do their best sharing the truth in love.  That, my precious saints, will look very different.  It is also what we need to begin seeing more and more as the grace of God is expressed in love through us by the power of the Holy Spirit.  So share the truth, precious redeemed ones!  Share it even if it carries with it the offense of the cross – the offense of seeing ourselves as sinful and lost – the offense of being in need of God’s forgiveness – and the offense of being available only through the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.  Just DON’T do this one thing – share this wonderful message in an offensive way that adds to the offense of the cross – and does NOT reflect the love and patience of God or the fruit of His Spirit.  


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To Stop or Not to Stop?

5/20/2015

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           This morning as I came to work I stopped my car at a stop sign.  Now I imagine for the vast majority of you this is not earth shattering news.  Some may think that our pastor may be losing it to write a comment like that (or that I am really stretching for anything to write in this article).  But as per the usual – there is a method to my madness in writing that statement.  Ever wonder why we just stop at these signs?  To be honest, there were no other cars coming – or even there at the 4 way stop.  There was no police officer to enforce the law – and for any real practical reason – there was little or no need for me to stop.  Pragmatism would even argue against stopping as it would delay my arrival at work – as well as cost me more gas to decelerate and accelerate again.  So . . . why did I do it?  Why did I obey an octagonal red sign with the word “STOP” in the middle of it?  What power does that sign have over me that I automatically stop when I come to it.

          Inherent in answering that question is an understanding of a few things as we get started.  The sign is there because of the law.  If I go through that intersection without stopping, I am breaking the law.  If I get caught doing this I will receive a ticket that will cost me money (both in a fine and in higher auto insurance rates).  If I do it often enough it could even cost me my license.  If I do it at the wrong time – and hit another car and injure or even kill someone, I could lose my freedom in jail.  All of this is true – but it only answers why I might stop in a higher risk scenario.  Why did I stop this morning?  Why, when there was no risk – no danger – no real threat – did I stop all by myself – then – start back on my way?

            The reason that I want to obey the law is because God, a higher authority than government, commands me to do so.  He states in Romans 13 that all the governing authority on earth is there because He has allowed it.  Unless a law commands me to directly disobey Him, I am to willingly and joyfully submit to it (as well as to those who make them).  To do otherwise is far worse than just not obeying a stop sign.  To disobey the governing authority is to act in rebellion against authority – and when I follow that line of authority – it winds up ending at the throne of God Himself.  But – as I considered this further I saw even more to all this.  Let me explain.

           For at least 18 years I was not a believer – and yet I still stopped at STOP signs.  You see, I was a product of the society in which I lived.  That society has a basic understanding of the rule of law.  That value was passed down to me by a succession of parents, grandparents, teachers, relatives, and neighbors.  I grew up with a basic understanding that I was to honor the law, those who enforce it, and the constitution upon which it is based.  Those were all givens.  As a result of those givens, there was a basic order which I enjoyed as a child – a freedom – and a basic sense of security I experienced.  All these were given to me because my parents, grandparents, etc. had chosen to live their lives under God.

            When we obey the law – and as believers do so under God’s ultimate sovereignty – we are blessed people.  We are not only blessed people – but we are blessing future generations as well.  But, all is not well in our nation – or in our hearts.  For decades I’ve watched as the rule of law has begun to break down.  I’ve watched it in the highest echelons of our government.  I’ve watched it as entertainment has glorified the bad boy mentality – and set before us anti-heros and thugs as examples and those we are told to emulate.  I’ve watched as sexual immorality and perversion has been normalized and things like virginity and life-long heterosexual marriage has been increasingly viewed as strange.  I’ve watched as the church has become increasingly antinomian (means without law) as a sloppy grace or no need for grace at all have been exalted in our world.  Our society has disintegrated over these years and a lawlessness and moral anarchy has begun to be passed on to the next generation.  I shudder at what will be given to my grandchildren as “the norm” for their generation. 

            All this came from stopping at a stop sign?  Yes, but it came from wondering what made me stop when I was the only one there.  Or was I the only one there?  You see, I believe God was there – that I live before Him.  I believe He sees all – and all that I am responsible to honor and glorify Him in “everything” I do.  (By the way – I do not congratulate myself for stopping – and my sanctification has such a long way to go on so many other issues).  Ultimately, all this is about Who is the authority in your life – and how you respond to the ultimate Authority.  A STOP sign in a small thing – yet a simple test.  Am I an authority unto myself – or – do I truly recognize the ultimate Authority over all things?  Submission to authority (and ultimately to the Authority) is a fact of life.  How I respond in this everyday realm is like taking my temperature.  It is an indicator of whether I have heart-issues or not.  Not stopping at a stop sign – speed limits – obeying an earthly authority – all are just indicators of where my heart is.  Whether I like it (or even admit it) or not – these indicators have much to say about where I am with God.  You see – by submitting joyfully to them I not only am blessed – but I am being a blessing to my family, my friends, my neighbors, and my society as well.  And if I read the Bible correctly – my submission will also create a better environment in which I can share the gospel as well.  So, saints of God – how are you doing at obeying STOP signs – and the One Who is ultimately The Authority behind them?  Simple submission is a blessing – to you – and to far more than you.  May your submission to God’s authority in all things bring you that blessing – and bring it to a generation that desperately needs a fresh example of it once again!


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Calvary Core Values - #3 - God's Word, The Final Moral Authority

9/16/2014

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Calvary Core Values – #3 – God’s Word, The Final Moral Authority

     Our world is currently in a moral revolution.  We’ve watched as our society has radically redefined morals in the past 50 years.  It has been something to watch, and I admit that often I have watched more in horror than in approval of where our world is headed. In the 1960’s this revolution began with the sexual revolution.  This is when mindsets changed concerning the sexual activity outside of marriage.  Before this time it was generally held that sex outside of marriage was wrong.  It is not that immorality did not exist before this time – because it did.  What changed was the public attitude toward it.  Before the sexual revolution this kind of choice was frowned upon by the majority of society and heterosexual immorality was seen as sinful.  This was not the mindset after the 1960’s.  In the 1970’s we were confronted by abortion.  It was made legal in the 1973 Roe vs. Wade Supreme Court decision.  Soon, this too, was generally accepted by society.  The 80’s brought us the selfish “me” generation where greed became good.  The 90’s introduced us to public officials like President Bill Clinton telling us that it did not matter that he was an adulterer, having sex in his office.  That was his private life – and our leaders could be godless in private – but still be good leaders in public life.  That divorced any discussion about a leader’s lifestyle and whether he was fit to lead or not.  Toward the close of the 90’s the issue of homosexual marriage arose – first to be banned by a vote of the people – but eventually to be by courts that legislated it from the bench.  Now, whether we are aware of it or not, the revolution continues as even the issue of our gender is open to debate.  To say someone is male or female is now offensive as confused men call themselves female, even without a sex change operation.  We are not even to critique someone who is male one month, female the next two, only to return to be male before the end of a year’s time. 

     This is what happens when morals become unmoored from God’s revelation of Himself and His will and purpose in the Bible.  Moral truth, when relative and made subjective to the individual, sets society adrift into a moral morass.  So where do we go to get clarity on these issues and hundreds of others? For the biblical Christian that question is very easy to answer.  We go to God’s Word.  Our third Core Value here at Calvary Chapel of Jonesboro is that we believe the Bible is the final authority when it comes to all matters of faith, morals, and practice as we walk with God in this world. 

     The Bible is very clear on moral matters.  The 10 commandments have given a moral clarity to societies ever since they were first given to Moses on Mount Sinai. There really is no mistaking what God considers moral and immoral – godly or ungodly.  That is something we hold as a core value. The morality of the Bible is not something that is up for public debate.  It is not something that ebbs and flows with the general moral stance of society itself.  It is something fixed by God.  We can either surrender to Him and submit to His moral truth – or pay a very high price by rebelling against Him. 

     This means that regardless of what the Supreme Court or any other human court says, God’s Word is more authoritative in our lives.  The morality of the Bible is not up for a vote – and neither does it need to be made “more relevant” to 21st century mankind.  Murder is murder – whether in the 3rd century before Christ or the 2nd one after. Adultery is adultery regardless of whether you are King David over all Israel – or you are just a relatively unknown person living outside God’s will in 2014 in Northeast Arkansas. 

     Let me refer to the Word of God so that you get an idea of why this is a Core Value at this fellowship.  I’ll begin by quoting 1 Peter in his letter to the churches. 

     For, "All flesh is like grass, and all its blory like the flower of grass. The grass
     withers, and the flower falls off, but the Word of the Lord endures forever." 
     1 Peter 1:24 (NASB)

     We are reminded by Peter (as he quotes from Isaiah 40) that the world around us and all its beauty will fade and be gone, but God’s Word will endure forever.  His Word does not change and will stand for all time as the authority in all matters on which God speaks through it.  David said this about God’s Word too as He was inspired to write,

     Forever, O LORD, Your word is settled in heaven. Psalm 119:89 (NASB)  

     Follow my reasoning for a moment here.  God tells us that His Word is forever settled in heaven.  There is no debate – no opposing arguments that are of any value.  He has spoken and it is settled on all issues on which He has spoken.  Now grasp that judgment will not ultimately be that which is done in earthly courts by fallible human judges.  The ultimate judgment will be before the throne of God.

     What He has stated we believe is clear and not debatable.  Sin is sin – no matter whether God is speaking to issues of sexual immorality, the words we speak, the attitudes that are in our hearts, the motives with which we do things, or even the way that we do business with others.  These are all things about which God has spoken – and when He has spoken – it is final.

     Some might wonder why we hold this as a “core value” at our fellowship?  It is because the Bible teaches us in Romans 3:23 that, “. . . all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” If what is sin is debatable according to the current standards of society, how do we know whether anyone has sinned?  If we are on the shifting sands of public opinion, how can we have any clarity on ANY matter of moral significance?  We believe that the Bible speaks very clearly in regard to these matters.  And where it speaks – it is authoritative – regardless of who questions it or what any human court, either governmental or societal, has to say about it.  That may eventually get us in trouble in the courts of public opinion and even one day in the courts of our nation.  But like the apostles before us, our stand will have to be that we choose to obey God rather than man.


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Thoughts on the Current Homosexual Marriage Supreme Court Case 

3/28/2013

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These were originally shared on Facebook - and there were requests to re-publish them on the church website.  


Post #1 - Thought a lot since yesterday and the drama surrounding marriage. There is a storm coming (actually, already is here). There is going to be a battle between who will have "civil rights" when this is done. That is because the Bible has always held homosexual activity to be sin - and will not change regardless of how people voted on Prop 8 in California vote or what the Supreme Court decides. Therefore if homosexuality is considered a civil right, then the Biblical view of homosexuality will be deemed illegal - in free speech rights - in the hiring of church personnel - and eventually in what is taught legally in churches. Those who think this is extreme need to remember that when abortion was first argued in the early 1970's wise people said it would one day be available up to the moment of birth and for things like sex selection - and they were considered extreme.

After a comment from a friend in my hometown about how my children would react if they were homosexuals - and that they probably would not come to me - but suffer shame and misery silently - this post was made.


Post #2 - Just to let you know, although it was not homosexuality, I've had times with my children where they were walking in some pretty serious sin (from a biblical standpoint). Rather than wait for them to come to me - my sweet wife and I lovingly, yet firmly and boldly approached them. We did so making sure or several things . . . First, that they knew we had sinned in the past (my past involved actually hating Christians and Christianity - and a great deal of sexual immorality). Second, we assured them that although we were crushed and disappointed with their current choices - we would NEVER stop loving them. We assured them that there was nothing they would ever do that would make us reject them as persons - or as our children. Our problem was with choices they were making outside of God's will. Third - we took the time to sit down with them and share the Scriptures - specifically what they were doing that was outside of God's will. We did so unapologetically and with boldness (our confidence arising from God's Word - not from any pseudo-religious standing we thought we might have as parents or me as a pastor). Afterward, we assured them of two things - we would continue to side with God's Word on the moral issue - and second that we loved them very much.


Post #3 - My original post was about the political ramifications of the current debate.  I have known several people who chose a homosexual lifestyle - have loved them - shared with them - and continue to affirm my love for them personally.  God does not approve of their homosexuality - even as He did not approve of my fornication before I came to Christ (and He wouldn't approve of it now either!) 

There are consequences for a nation when they choose to codify a sinful choice as legal. BUT - as a pastor and disciple of Jesus Christ - my responsibility is to love the person who is sinning, tell them the truth, and let them know that as a fellow sinner - I found grace in the gospel of Jesus Christ.  God gave it to me when I responded to the conviction of the Holy Spirit (Who used Scripture to show me my sin) in repentance from my heterosexual immorality (as well as breaking His Law multitudes of times in ways that blew my mind). They can receive the same grace from God as well.  The one thing they will have to do, though, is see their choice (homosexuality is a choice - not a DNA driven lifestyle) as sin and be willing to respond in repentance as they turn from it, and faith in Jesus Christ as the only way to pay for their sin and be right with God.


Post #4 - Still thinking about the homosexual marriage debate . . . As Biblical Christians we have an interesting number of roles to live out in regard to these days. 


First and foremost we have our relationship with God through Jesus Christ. That we walk out loving and knowing Him - and do so with humility - always grasping that He first loved us and drew us to Himself due to His immeasurable mercy and grace. 


Second, we have a dual responsibility to our world which means we will walk a fine line in regard to how the world works. The first of these dual responsibilities is to proclaim the gospel of God's grace in Jesus Christ! That means that we cannot allow the political or social discourse to become so toxic that we are rejected because of our political beliefs alone. The first offense in our lives needs to be the offense of the cross and the gospel. If people are offended with us - it is because we love them enough to tell them of their condition - their true condition of falling short of the glory of God. Here is where we have to be careful that our political discourse does not make it seem like certain sins are "more sinful" that others. Sin is sin - and it all separates us from God - and requires of us repentance and faith in Jesus Christ to be forgiven and to receive Christ's righteousness as a gift so we can stand before God. In regard to sin - I am no different than the homosexual - for we both have sinned against God and we both need pure, unadulterated grace that only comes in the gospel. This ALWAYS has to be our first message to the world. 


BUT, we also have a second role that comes into focus in times like these - and that is a prophetic one. Especially in a democratic republic like ours - we play a part in our governing process. Therefore when our nation begins to turn from its godly heritage (which is has been going on for probably 60-70 years now - I am not one to say that this is the big issue - we've made choices for many years now - racism and inequality for blacks from the end of the Civil War until the Civil Rights movement of the early 1960's, the free love movement of the 1960's which popularized heterosexual immorality i.e. sex outside of monogamous, heterosexual marriage, abortion in the 1970's, the love of money in the 80's and 90's, and now homosexuality from the 80's to the present) - again, when our nation turns from its godly heritage and wants to codify as law what God calls sin, it is our responsibility to prophetically speak God's Word to our society - not that we predict the future or write new Scripture (which is unscriptural) - but we speak the morality that is in the Bible - boldly and unapologetically to our society. We lovingly, yet strongly state where we are going - and where it will lead. We do so hopefully knowing that it is most likely the case that we will be rejected - mocked - and called any number of names. Yet we do this for God's glory - and for love of the people in the world - and never for any kind of vindictiveness. We remember where WE came from - and that we needed grace and truth to come to Christ too. 


Finally - we do this for God's glory - knowing that Jesus made it clear that His Kingdom is not of this world. There is a strong possiblity that we will be misrepresented, cursed, spoken evil of - and maybe even arrested and put to death eventually for our stand with God's Word - and with the gospel of Jesus Christ. If I remember rightly - our Founder and Savior was cursed, mocked, arrested and eventually crucified for speaking the truth (wonder what week that happened in history? - oh, yeah, this week!) 


Just one last admonition for my brothers and sisters in Christ. Hold fast to the Word of God - to the testimony of Jesus Christ - to the gospel of God's salvation - and when you do have to speak prophetically to the culture - SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE! Tough to do - I know - but when we do have to speak prophetically to our culture and our government - we do not want to do so in such a way that will disqualify us from sharing the more important message of the gospel later! (Yeah - just looked at the length of this - and I am a preacher - HA! - and a long-winded one at that!) Love all of you - and especially those I have the honor of ministering to weekly at Calvary Chapel of Jonesboro!

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You Da' Man, Part 2 - The Eyes of a Godly Man

11/1/2011

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     May the Lord grant you grace as you are a “man of integrity” within your own home.  We continue this week in our look at the man of integrity from Psalm 101.  This week we are going to focus on what a man of integrity “looks at” within his home.  The Psalmist states the following about his desire to be a man of integrity—one who “gives heed to the blameless way.”  He says at the beginning of verse 3, “I will set no worthless thing before my eyes.”  Let’s take a look today at what it means to have the sight of the blameless way in our eyes. 

     The word “worthless” here is from the Hebrew word “beliyyaal” which has as its most basic meaning that of utter worthlessness.  The word always has a very strong moral component to it and therefore has the idea of wickedness and something that is good for nothing at all.  In the Septuagint (the Greek version of the Old Testament) this word was used as a personal name for Satan.  Those who were of the most corrupt and godless character were called, “sons of beliyyaal,” and were seen as being in rebellion against God’s moral authority.  Therefore the blameless man who seeks to maintain integrity in his home is careful not to put anything that is morally worthless and base before his eyes.  Note also that he does this by making strong choices against it.  He has a will SET in God’s direction—a will that is SET according to God’s moral compass and the Word of God.  This will not be easy in our society.  It requires hard choices—and choices that may seem legalistic to others around you.

     How do we live this way then?  How do we live as men who do not want to set any morally worthless thing before our eyes?  First, we must set the Word of God before our eyes—for through His Word God will begin clearly defining what is and is not morally worthless.  Here are a few.  In the Old Testament we are told not to look upon the nakedness of    anyone other than our wife—and that is to be done in the marriage bed as a holy thing.  Well, that pretty much rules out R-rated movies (and for that matter a large number of PG-13 rated ones where the nakedness of others is paraded   before us on a regular basis.)  Then there is the passage in Ephesians that says, “. . . And there must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting, which are not fitting . . . “  Filthiness is defined by the Amplified Bible as obscenity or   indecency.”  So, all things which are in these categories are out as well.  I hate to say it, but this pretty much rules out probably 90-95% of what is on television and what is in the movie theaters.  Here is where we will hear the accusations of legalism come out.  But those who do this miss that Scripture tells us that it is the “grace of God that teaches to say no to ungodliness.” 

     Let me ask a question at this point about the moral sloppiness that is based on this “non-teaching” grace of today.  Where has it led us?  How is it morally in the church today?  Has the practice of being lenient with our eyes brought great blessing to our marriages?  Has it blessed us with great moral fiber and steadfastness?  The eyes are the windows into our souls.  What we allow to pass through them has the ability to bless us—or torture us with temptation and unnecessary trials.  A man who desires to be blameless and maintain integrity in his home will guard his eyes, and make sure that he places NOTHING worthless before them.  This is part and parcel of why he continues as a blameless man.

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