Rich, Sexually Stupid Fools and the Women Who Use Them. Proverbs 29:3

A man who loves wisdom makes his father glad, But he who keeps company with harlots wastes his wealth. Proverbs 29:3

We see again the correlation between  wisdom and the relationship between a  father and a son.  Here we see that the father has taught his son well to avoid the company of harlots.  Truly he has a wise father if he has taught his son this.  I once talked to a campus minister who worked with young men and asked him what one thing did more to derail the process of discipleship.  He did not even pause in answering me.  His words reverberated in my soul - and still remain there.  He said, "When they get involved with the wrong kind of girl." 

If we love wisdom, we will know that the wrong relationship with a woman can be devastating to us.  The first 9 chapters of Proverbs warns us again and again of this trap.  When we love wisdom, we are one who listens to these warnings and heeds them.  We avoid those kind of relationships and steer clear of any kind of involvement with a woman that would rob us of our ability to think, to reason, and to make wise decisions.  We love seeing things from God's perspective - and seeing things this way helps us to deal with our sexuality without being burned.  Our sexuality is a gift from God Himself - and is only to be given to our wives.  Ladies, the same is true for you - your sexuality is a gift from your heavenly Father - and is only to be given to your husband.

When a man begins to "keep company" with harlots, he is evidencing that he is a fool.  One of the reasons loose women hang around a man is so that he will spend his money on them.  He will do so in large amounts because the more he spends on this loose woman, the looser she will become with him.  The fool may think that she really likes him - or that she truly thinks he is her man - but all that will go away as soon as the money runs out.  In the end, he has lost something he will not regain in his sexual purity - but he will also lose large amounts of money in the process.  If he is foolish enough to do this when he is married - and follow a harlot into adultery, divorce, and remarriage - he'll even lose more money when it is all over.  We've seen this again and again in the world - when rich men marry young women who throw themselves at them.  When the woman has stayed long enough to get a lot of his money and wants to move on - she cleans him out in the divorce settlement. 

The fool does not love wisdom - he loves his immorality.  He loves that his money can buy him illicit relationships (note I did not say love, because whatever he has gotten - it isn't love).  But the fool and his money are soon departed.  If he is wise, he will have learned from the situation - but most don't - as evidenced by their next relationship with another woman after the same thing.  The fool never learns.  That is why it is such a delight to have a son who loves wisdom - and - who knows the pitfalls of his sexuality when it takes over and turns him into little more than a moron.